February 2008 Shofar

From The Rabbi:

 

Tekiah

 

Shevat/Adar I 5768

February 2008

Dear Friends,

            As most of you know, I am in the habit of associating one subject or idea with another area of thought..  This month I would like to play with some computer terms and relate them to the functioning of a community.  The are two types of computers, PC’s and MAC’s.  In a synagogue, the initials PC might represent Participation and Communication.  The initials MAC could represent Mindfulness, Action, and Cooperation.  Taken together, they describe that which forms the basis for a great community.

            Let us begin with participation.  Membership in an organization may consist of merely paying your dues. It may also be a rewarding association with other people.  In order to receive the greatest benefit from one’s membership, one must participate in the life of the synagogue.  I am not one who likes to pay an admission fee to an amusement park or museum and then not partake of what the place has to offer.  Similarly, there are a large number of possible activities at Temple Beth El of which one can avail oneself.

            Communication is a vital aspect of a smoothly running organization.  At Beth El we need to communicate clearly with each other.  Two people emailed me recently but never received a reply.  In both cases they sent the message to the wrong address.  It was by accident that I found out about the error.  People have had ideas that had merit but did not think of expressing these ideas to the community or myself.  These new thoughts could be useful in the growth of our Temple.  In some cases, I have failed to fulfill the needs of families but was not made aware of it for many months.  If we are to function at the highest level we need to communicate with each other clearly and often.

            A third concept is mindfulness.  We should be aware of other members of our community.  Sometimes there are families who are in distress or in need of support but may not receive the necessary help due to lack of communication.  Each month we publish this bulletin which describes many activities; we then send out email reminders during the month.  Yet many of us do not know what is happening in our community.  Much work and leadership are needed at Beth El, but even though we publicize this information, few people respond to the call for help, often because they are uninformed.  Therefore, we need to be mindful of what is happening in the community and with the members.

            Fourth, we need to take action.  When we recognize that a congregant needs our help, we need to communicate that to the temple office, a board member, or the rabbi.  When we see an activity that might be interesting, we need to email or call the temple at that moment, rather than putting it off and forgetting about the activity.  When we hear the call for help we need to respond.  Often we think that someone else will do the work or take on the leadership role.  It is said regarding the computer, “Garbage in, garbage out.”  Regarding the synagogue it could be said, “Nothing in, nothing out.”  There is no “they” in our community, only “us.”  If we all take a turn at being active, no one gets worn out and all the needs are met.

            The last idea is cooperation.  Although we often disagree on both concepts and methods, we are a family.  In order to continue to maintain that cohesiveness, it is necessary to recognize our common goals.  I am reminded of the phrase, “United we stand; divided we fall.”  Underlying everything that takes place at Temple Beth El is the fact that we are a community.

            In computer language the smallest amount of information is call a bit.  In community, everyone is asked to do a little bit.  The internet has connected us to a world of information.  The synagogue can connect us to a world of relationships, educational opportunities, and rewarding experiences.  In order to use a computer, one needs to have a power source, press the “on” button, let the computer boot up, and select the program we want to use.  In synagogue life, we have our Source of Power, but we still need to press our “on” buttons and engage in the programs that are available to us.

            Many of us have mastered the computer and cell phone, but we had to take the time to learn how they operated and practice using them.  The time spent to become involved in these devices has paid great dividends.  If we spend time learning how the synagogue functions and practice getting involved, it will also pay great dividends.  As I write this interest rates are down, but they will someday rebound.  My hope is that this message will help remind us to raise our rate of interest in the Temple.  Working together, it does compute.

 

            Shalom uv’racha,

 

            Rabbi David Kaplan

Shofar

 

From Our President:

 

Dear Friends,

 

Has winter finally arrived?  If it has I want to remind you to not only drive carefully, but in case of snow or other inclement weather remember that when Public School is closed so will Temple Beth El.  Also please be very careful when entering or exiting our parking lot.   A reminder Religious school will be closed on February 17 due to President’s weekend.  On February 13th there will be a joint Sisterhood and Men’s Club Chinese Dinner.  If you are interested in attending please contact the office.  Also, Basketfest will be held Sunday March 2nd.  I can personally attest to the fact that this is a fun event and Sisterhood raises a lot of money, which is ultimately given to TBE as part of their annual pledge.  If you have never attended you should get your ticket soon, as it is always sold out.  Sisterhood is always in need of” baskets” for this event; so if you have not signed up to donate a themed “basket”, please consider doing so.

 The nominating committee consisting of Mike Chajes, chair, Bob Gelman, Andrea Finestrauss, Joe Sontowski, and Elizabeth Munson has met.  Once they have made their decisions, and those individuals have accepted, they will present the slate to the Board and then to the congregation in May.  Hopefully, I will be able to communicate the proposed slate to you in next month’s letter. 

I would like to thank Jeff Herst and Mike Herman for working on and completing the Temple audit.  The new accounting software allowed the audit to go much smoother than in previous years, however, many hours were required to complete the audit for not only the Temple’s records, but also Sisterhood, including Judaica and Men’s Club.  Some recommendations were made but none of any significance.  I can tell you that everything was in good order.

I plan to call a special congregation meeting on March 9th, to discuss two issues.  The first is to review the Temko project and determine if the project is to go forward.  The other is to seek approval of the Rabbi’s contract.  I cannot tell you more at this time since neither issue has been presented to the Board.  This will be done at our February meeting.

I remind you that if you have any ideas or suggestions please do not hesitate contacting me at , or by phone (302-234-6529), or you may contact any one of the other board members.

 

Have a good month,

 

Jay Stellenberg

President, Board of Directors

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CONGREGATION MEETING

Sunday, March 9th  7:00 p.m.

 

Agenda:

 

1.  Temko Project

2.  Rabbi Kaplan’s contract

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    REMINDER...

If you need to contact   Dee Aaronson or Adina Mattes by e-mail,

please use their Temple office e-mail addresses

 

Dee: 

Adina: 

 

 

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DISCOVERY GROUP

February 10th

March 9th

Please note that April Discovery Group date has changed to April 6th

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FAMILY SERVICE

Gimmel B - February 8th

Bet A & B - February 29th

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DALET PARENT WORKSHOP

Sunday, February 10th

10:45 a.m.

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CONFIRMATION RETREAT

Friday, February 15 - 17

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TOT SHABBAT

Friday, March 7th

Grades K, 1 & 2 will be singing

 

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BAD WEATHER

CLOSINGS

 

Please listen to the  announcements on the radio - WILM, WDEL, WJBR or check out our website at tbede.org.  We will make a decision on school closings at 8:30 a.m. on Sundays and 3:30 on Tuesdays & Thursdays. 

 

Webmasters note: You can also check the temple website at: http://tbede.org/news 

 

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      GIFT SHOP

            JUDAICA

 

 

            This has been a great year so far for TBE Gift Shop, we are however, in need of a few changes to make the running of the shop the best that it can be for TBE.  We will no longer be taking any form of IOU’s.  If there is an item that you would like we will be glad to hold it for you for a few days or if you like or are in need of an item I will be glad to do a custom order or a personal arrangement may  be made with only me.  I am always able to take a phone call on my cell-302-218-6982 to give you the personal shopping that you may need.  I will be attending the gift shop show in NY and have also been invited by a friend to attend the Baltimore show as well.  If there are specific items or gifts in general that you would like to see us have please contact me by email, .  I am very interested in making the gift shop a place that we would all like to shop and help TBE at the same  time.  Happy Shopping!.

 

Andrea Finestrauss

 

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MARK YOUR CALENDARS

 

  Fri., Feb. 8 - Gimmel B Family Service

  Sun., Feb. 10 - Discovery Group

                        - Men’s Club Breakfast

                        - Dalet Parent Meeting

  Wed., Feb.13 - Sisterhood/Men’sClub Chinese Dinner

  Fri. Feb 15- Sun., Feb. 17 – Confirmation Retreat

  Fri., Feb. 29 - Bet A & B Family Service

  Sun., March 2 - Basketfest

  Fri., March 7 - Tot Shabbat

  Sat., March 8 - Hai Class Service

 

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 TBE CHAVERIM

 

TBE Chaverim is a Temple men's group (mostly retired) that gets together on most Wednesday afternoons. On two of the Wednesdays, we meet for lunch and enjoy card games at the Temple afterward. Once a month we go on day trips which have included all sorts of eclectic museums, boat rides, golf outings, etc. It is an informal group with your only obligation being to advise us whether you will be attending our various activities. Our e-mail list has about 20 men and our activities normally are attended by between 7 and 12 men.

 

 

JOIN THE TBE

CHAVERIM...

 

Wednesday, February 6th

Philadelphia Auto Show

 

Wednesday, February 13th

Lunch & Cards

 

Wednesday, February 20th

Lunch & Cards

 

For more information contact:

Steve Osman at

   

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ABOUT BASKETFEST...

 

Notes on Basketfest: This is just an FYI for our new members and those who have never attended. Basketfest is an adults only fundraising event sponsored by TBE Sisterhood. This is our 9th year for this very successful event and we continue to raise more money for TBE each year through the generous donations of themed "baskets" from congregants, our Religious School classes and local businesses.  They are not always baskets in the traditional sense but often some sort of receptacle filled with items which follow a theme or gift certificates for goods and services. These "baskets" are then bid on with purchased tickets and the winning tickets are then drawn for all of the baskets.   Refreshments are served, the atmosphere is festive, door prizes are given away and a good time is had by all. Many of these "baskets" will be on display in our foyer from now until the event. If you would like to contribute a "basket" but need some guidance, please call Terry Prager @ 610-255-0238 or D. Aaronson @ the Temple office.

 

MARK YOUR CALENDARS NOW

Sunday, March 2nd

Pre-sale tickets will be available for pick up in the Temple lobby from 9:00-11:45 on the morning of Basketfest.

 

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EARN DONOR DOLLARS NOW

KITCHEN VOLUNTEERS NEEDED IN

FEBRUARY AND MARCH

 

Don’t miss out on a chance to earn your donor dollars for our fabulous donor dinner in May. The last day to earn donor dollars toward this year’s dinner, pin and diamonds is April 6th.  There is still time to volunteer to earn your donor dollars!

 

Kitchen volunteers are needed for the following dates in February and March:

 

February Dates:

Friday 2/8/08 – 1 more worker (Dalet Class Service)

Saturday 2/9/08 – 1 worker

 

Friday 2/15/08 – 2 workers

Saturday 2/16/08 – 1 worker

 

Friday 2/29/08 – 4 workers (Bet A & B Class Service)

Saturday 3/1/08 – 1 worker

 

March Dates:

Friday 3/7/08 – 2 workers for Tot Shabbat and 2 workers for Oneg

Saturday 3/8/08 – 3 workers (Hai Class Service)

 

Friday 3/21/08 – 2 workers

Saturday 3/22/08 – 1 worker

 

If you have never worked in the kitchen before you can sign up to work with other experienced people.  It’s a great way to meet new people and get involved!  Please e-mail or call me to sign up or to get more information.

 

Thanks.  I’ll look forward to hearing from you.

Renee Felder 

(610)347-0518

 

 

 

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TEMPLE BETH EL IS SPONSORING A TEXAS HOLD EM’ TOURNAMENT

 run by a third party vendor at

 The Poker Room

 642 Plaza Dr, Newark

(4 Seasons Shopping Center),

    Sunday, March 30th

1:30 pm - 7:30 pm.

 

Ever watch ESPN or Celebrity Poker on TV and think, I could beat those losers?! Think you have what it takes to be a big winner, and make some money for yourself and the Temple at the same time? Need some excitement on a Sunday afternoon? Well, have we got just the thing for you...

 

As you know, the Temple lost a source of outside revenue when Bingo was discontinued, and we're utilizing Texas Hold Em' as a replacement revenue source that is minimally labor intensive, is newly available to non-profits via vendor services in Delaware, and will hopefully continue to gain in popularity.

So, if you like to play, and think (ie, know) that you're good, then check it out! More details to come as the

 

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30 MINUTE HAGGADAH’S

 

Last year we ordered a new 30 minute Haggadah and made them available for purchase.  They were so popular that we have   had many orders for this year.  If you would   like to order some and have not done so,   please contact the Temple office or Andrea    Finestrauss with your name and the quantity   that you would like.  Price is $6.00 each for   regular print and $8.00 each for large print.

 

 

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                                            RELIGIOUS SCHOOL NEWS          From Our Principal:

 

We have been busy this Winter enjoying our annual class dinners and services.  The students have made us all very proud, with their prayers and the lessons they taught.  These are wonderful services for all to attend, especially those with younger children.  I encourage you to come in and enjoy.  The two class services this month will be:  Gimmel B on Feb. 8th and the Bet class on Feb. 29th. 

 

I have a few reminders for you this month about some of our policies (new and old).

1.          We collect Keren Ami (tzedakah or charity) every Sunday.  The amount is completely up to you, but please remind your student to bring in some change each Sunday.

2.         We are still having some problems with students arriving late (especially on Sundays!).  We no longer require a late pass, because this delays the student from getting to class even longer, but I will begin keeping students in the office during break if they are consistently late to class.  PLEASE try your best to get them here 5 – 10 minutes before classes begin.  It is quite disruptive to the teachers (and other students) to have someone always coming in to class after they have begun prayers and lessons.

3.         On the other hand, the teachers are not ready for their students to arrive more than 15 minutes early.  Please do not drop them off before 4:30 during the week and 9:15 on Sundays.  If you need to come early, please stay with your student in the Temple lobby.  We have had some problems with students alone in the classrooms and running through the halls.  Especially in the younger grades, the teachers need this time to get ready for class and cannot be taking care of children before or after class times.  Please be sure to arrive BY 11:30 to pickup your student on Sundays. 

4.         If your student needs to be dismissed early from class, please send a note to the office and

pick them up from the office.  We cannot have students leaving on their own to meet parents in the parking lot and we need to know if you plan to pick them up during break.  It is very important that we stay informed of your plans, in order to ensure your child’s safety and our peace of mind while they are in Religious School.

 

Thank you very much for adhering to these policies.  Please know that we are trying to ensure the safety of our students, as well as teach them the importance of respect and responsibility.  The teachers and I thank you for your consideration and for giving us this time with your children.  Please call or stop in to see me if you have any questions or suggestions.  B’shalom,  --Adina Mattes

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From Mrs. Finestrauss’s 1st Grade Class:

 

This year is really flying by. We have enjoyed learning and celebrating about many Jewish holidays and currently more bible stories. We have read many great stories.  Crafts and other projects help the morning whiz by. This week we are making birdfeeder treats to hang outside for Tu B’ Shevat.  We have had some great snacks in class and tried new things.  Music is fun we are always learning songs and having fun. Instead of report cards in 1st grade I will be speaking to parents about the year. All in all, we are happy for Sundays and spending great time together sharing in our Jewish enrichment!

 

From Morah  Elannah’s First Grade Class

 

Our first grade class had a fabulous fall and is having a wonderful winter!  We’ve been learning all about the Jewish holidays, practicing the Shema, and learning new Bible stories as well. 

Our students have enjoyed taking turns bringing home the Shabbat Box.  It has a special set of candlesticks, a kiddush cup and a challah cover that the students use to celebrate Shabbat with their family. 

 

Recently, we’ve been talking about mitzvoth, and how important it is for Jews to perform acts of kindness for others.  Here are some mitzvoth that the students have done recently:

 

“I helped a friend who needed someone to play with.”—Brandon (Dov)

 

“I reminded someone in class to raise their hand in line so they wouldn’t get in trouble.”  Jaime  (Yamine)

 

“I taught someone to rollerskate.”  Seth (Ra’anan)

 

I helped my cousin to rollerskate.”  Denise (Devorah)

 

“I took someone to the nurse when she got hurt.”  Alannah (Rivka)

 

“My cousin tripped and I helped her up.”  Petra (Rachel Hannah)

 

“I helped somebody to ice skate.”  Max (Moshe)

 

“When someone was in trouble, I told them to quiet down so they wouldn’t get into more trouble.”  Tess (Ruth)

 

From Mrs. Giannotti’s  Aleph History Class:

 

The Aleph class has been learning about Tu B’Shevat and the importance of planting trees in Israel. We had a classroom activity, which was fun and stimulating to all.  The class had an opportunity to break into groups, and write an announcement about the Holiday.  Each group had the chance to brainstorm their ideas, write an announcement, make decisions, and share their finished product with the class.

 

Here’s what they had to say about Tu B’Shevat:

 

Group 1:  Drew, Rachel W., Zoe, Sami

“You should plant trees because they are beautiful and it gives us paper, oxygen, do it seriously,,,NOW!”

 

Group 2:  Rachel C, Joshua, Natalie, Shayna

 “ Trees are very important. Trees give us air.  We should plant trees on Tu B’Shevat.  Tu B’Shevat is almost here.”

 

Group 3:  Justin, Melissa, Rebecca, Jenna

 “This is an important announcement message about trees, so please listen!  It is important to plant a tree in Israel because they give us oxygen, food, shelter, and more. So send in money now to the JNF so you can plant a tree. Thanks!  Please call 1-800-plant trees today!”

 

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From Mrs. Giannotti’s Bet History Class:

 

When Bet class was studying the Ten Commandments they were given an assignment to be done alone or as part of a group.   The assignment was, if the Ten Commandments were being handed down today, what would it say.  The students had so much fun brainstorming their ideas and thoughts, then inscribing them.  If you passed by our classroom, you may have seen them hanging up and had a chuckle.  If not, here they are:

 

Alex, Morgan and Brian                             

1. No littering                          

2. No Smoking                        

3. Obey G-d                                       

4. No Robbing                        

5. No Shoving                         

6. Do Not Torture Animals                  

7. No poisoning                                   

8. No Drunk Driving                            

9. Buckle Seat Belts                            

10. No Bombing                                  

 

Lauren, Charlie (Charlotte), Regan, Eden

1. You shall love your family

2. Share your things

3. Donate things to the poor

4. Be nice to everyone

5. Respect all living creatures

6. Do your fair share of chores

7. Don’t curse or threaten people

8. Do Not Kill or Hurt other People

9. Don’t destroy other people’s things

10. Don’t destroy Nature

 

Gianni, Dylan, Josh, Alec                 

1.  No Murder

2.  No Bullying at school

3.  No cannibalism

4.  Worship your G-d like no other

5.  No having more than one G-d

6.  No Wars

7.  No Drugs

8.  Protect Israel

9.  Don’t treat your husband or  wife cruelly

10.  No Slavery